Wish to go to New York~

     for some reason， 和朋友聊到命运。以前很喜欢算命，也很相信命运。但随着年龄的增长，对那些东西都看得比较淡了。如果说同一天2个小时里面生的所有的女生都是一个命运，未免有点太匪夷所思。在我看来，命运只是一种趋势。命运好，固然高兴，命运不好，也不用失落。生活么，过的就是一个心态，有钱不等于幸福，没钱也不等于都是困苦。

 

      其实很早就觉得人其实都是平等的，有好的，就必然有不好的。我知道我的前20多年很顺利，即使将来有什么波折，我相信我也能有一个好的心态去面对。如果说让我选择大起大落的生活，我宁愿选择一个平平淡淡的生活。我的目标是：不缺吃穿，每年出去玩。^^

 

      I would like a fun life, money is not fun at all. :p

 

     I need a guy who treats me well, even he does not get a higher pay.

     I need a guy who is confident that we will have a happy life, even some fortune teller said I might not be a perfect wife.

     I need a guy who strongly believe that we will spend the rest of our life together, no matter how hard the time is.

 

     I believe I will find that guy and we will live a happy life together. ^^ There is always something that you guys can work hard and get it done, like making money, but there is also something that you can never achieve by hard work, like LOVE.

 

    以上就是我的标准了哈，不符合的快快离开啊！当然主动离开更好的哈！:p 我老公一定要抱着必胜的信念，相信我们一定有美好的未来！:P

    lalalala~~~ lol

 

By the way, here is something why I wrote this blog. Some fortune teller was saying that I may get divorce since I miss wood in my life. But I would rather to believe someone else who said my marriage is good, but may not be together for the first few years. And another thing I know to solve this problem is do not get merried at an early age, this is what I have done already. Anyway, I dont trust those bad things and I believe my marriage will be perfect! ^^

    

       来这个小城市2个月了，上班也两个月了，最大的感觉出了工作就是枯燥。今天上网和以前同学聊天，好多朋友都去了美国微软。郁闷，微软咋不要我呢？不过感觉就算去了微软，生活估计也是一样枯燥。程序员就是一个高级打工者，打工的很难挣到大钱啊。

      也许你回说我贱哈，工资已经不少了哈，但是真得很喜欢有挑战的工作，挣钱的工作。过去的两年，完成了生活中很多大事，那种每年都有新期待，新变化的生活真得很让人兴奋。等过了试用期吧，等海哥也过来上班以后，两个留在这个小地方的人看看能不能计划做点啥哈？谁知道呢。需要一些新计划，新打算。有变化的生活才有意思啊~